feat: add KV chunking support for XAttention softmax kernels

Implement three-phase KV chunking for sparse attention estimation:
1. softmax_compute_partial_stats: compute (m, l) per KV chunk
2. merge_softmax_stats: merge partial stats on host
3. softmax_normalize_and_block_sum: normalize with global stats

This allows computing sparse attention masks without storing full
raw attention scores in GPU memory, reducing peak memory usage
from O(q_len * k_full_len) to O(q_len * k_chunk_len).

Key changes:
- Add softmax_partial_stats_kernel with causal mask support
- Add softmax_normalize_block_sum_kernel with kv_offset parameter
- Add Python wrappers for new kernels
- Update test script to validate KV chunking alignment
- Add documentation for the new kernels

Test results show perfect alignment with xattn_estimate API:
- Density difference: 0.000000
- Mask difference: 0.0044%

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>
Co-Authored-By: Happy <yesreply@happy.engineering>

CLAUDE.md

@@ -16,6 +16,7 @@ Nano-vLLM is a lightweight vLLM implementation (~1,200 lines) for fast offline L
 | [`docs/sparse_attention_guide.md`](docs/sparse_attention_guide.md) | Block sparse attention methods (XAttention, FlexPrefill, MInference, AvgPool, Quest), computation flow, algorithms |
 | [`docs/xattention_algorithm_guide.md`](docs/xattention_algorithm_guide.md) | XAttention 算法详解: stride reshape、Triton kernels、BSA 依赖、块选择算法 |
 | [`docs/xattn_kernels_guide.md`](docs/xattn_kernels_guide.md) | XAttention Triton kernels: flat_group_gemm (反对角线求和)、softmax_fuse_block_sum (block 聚合) |
+| [`docs/xattn_kv_chunking_kernels.md`](docs/xattn_kv_chunking_kernels.md) | XAttention KV Chunking: 三阶段 softmax (partial stats + merge + normalize)，支持 KV 维度分块 |
 | [`docs/xattn_chunked_prefill.md`](docs/xattn_chunked_prefill.md) | XAttention chunked prefill: API、使用方式、一致性要求 |
 | [`docs/xattn_bsa_policy_design.md`](docs/xattn_bsa_policy_design.md) | XAttention BSA Policy: 算法设计、性能基准(128K)、内存管理、density 统计 |
 | [`docs/xattn_density_benchmark.md`](docs/xattn_density_benchmark.md) | 📊 XAttention Density Benchmark: 4K-32K context、stride 参数、per-layer density 分析 |