Merge GPU-only sparse attention support from tzj/minference-exp branch:
**GPU-only mode additions:**
- Add compute_prefill/compute_decode methods to SparsePolicy base class
- Add GPU-only attention routing in attention.py
- Add alloc_policy_metadata() for pre-allocating GQA buffers
- Add XAttention + BSA sparse attention for GPU-only prefill
- Add kvcache_manager to set_context() for policy access
**bench.py enhancements:**
- Add --model argument for configurable model path
- Add --policy argument (full, xattn) for sparse policy selection
- Add --enable-policy flag for FullAttentionPolicy routing
- Add --enforce-eager option to disable CUDA graphs
- Add --gpu-util option for GPU memory utilization
**Documentation:**
- Add gpu_only_xattn_guide.md with performance analysis
- Add gpu_only_sparse_integration.md baseline document
- Add gpu-vram-requirement.md rule for GPU-only mode
Both CPU offload and GPU-only paths are preserved and functional.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>