⚡️ perf: optimize XAttention estimate phase with K-only loading

Add load_k_only_to_slot_layer() to OffloadEngine for estimate phase:
- Only load K (not K+V) during block selection in select_blocks()
- Reduces H2D transfer by 50% in estimate phase
- 64K context: XAttn/Full ratio drops from 1.48x to 0.99x
- 32K context: XAttn/Full ratio drops from 1.67x to 1.20x

The estimate phase uses flat_group_gemm_fuse_reshape(Q, K) which
only requires K for attention score computation. V is unused.

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nanovllm/kvcache/offload_engine.py

@@ -431,6 +431,62 @@ class OffloadEngine:
         # Record H2D transfer: K + V = 2 * block_bytes
         MemoryObserver.record_h2d(2 * self.gpu_block_bytes, is_prefill=is_prefill)
 
+    def load_k_only_to_slot_layer(
+        self, slot_idx: int, layer_id: int, cpu_block_id: int, chunk_idx: int = -1,
+        is_prefill: bool = True,
+    ) -> None:
+        """
+        Async load only K (not V) from CPU block to GPU slot.
+
+        Used by XAttention estimate phase which only needs K for attention score
+        computation. Saves 50% communication compared to loading K+V.
+
+        Args:
+            slot_idx: Target GPU slot index
+            layer_id: Layer index to load (for CPU cache indexing)
+            cpu_block_id: Source CPU block ID
+            chunk_idx: Optional chunk index for NVTX labeling (-1 means not specified)
+            is_prefill: True if in prefill phase, False if in decode phase
+        """
+        logger.debug(f"Ring load K-only: layer={layer_id}, CPU[{cpu_block_id}] -> GPU slot[{slot_idx}]")
+
+        stream = self.slot_transfer_streams[slot_idx]
+
+        if chunk_idx >= 0:
+            nvtx_label = f"H2D K-only: L{layer_id} Chunk{chunk_idx} CPU[{cpu_block_id}]->Slot[{slot_idx}]"
+        else:
+            nvtx_label = f"H2D K-only: L{layer_id} CPU[{cpu_block_id}]->Slot[{slot_idx}]"
+
+        nvtx.push_range(message=nvtx_label, color="cyan")
+        with torch.cuda.stream(stream):
+            stream.wait_event(self.ring_slot_compute_done[slot_idx])
+            stream.wait_event(self.ring_slot_offload_done[slot_idx])
+
+            # Only copy K, not V
+            self.k_cache_gpu[slot_idx].copy_(
+                self.k_cache_cpu[layer_id, cpu_block_id], non_blocking=True
+            )
+            self.ring_slot_ready[slot_idx].record(stream)
+        nvtx.pop_range()
+
+        # Record H2D transfer: K only = 1 * block_bytes
+        MemoryObserver.record_h2d(self.gpu_block_bytes, is_prefill=is_prefill)
+
+    def get_k_for_slot(self, slot_idx: int) -> Tensor:
+        """
+        Get only K for a ring buffer slot (no V).
+
+        Used by XAttention estimate phase which only needs K for attention
+        score computation.
+
+        Args:
+            slot_idx: GPU slot index
+
+        Returns:
+            k_cache, shape: [1, block_size, kv_heads, head_dim]
+        """
+        return self.k_cache_gpu[slot_idx].unsqueeze(0)
+
     def wait_slot_layer(self, slot_idx: int) -> None:
         """
         Wait for a slot's loading to complete.